Many
of us were raised to ignore unkind/rude remarks. We must be polite no matter
what. But what would be wrong if we simply said, “that really hurt my feelings”
and just walked away. Do this even if other people were present. We certainly would
not look bad, just honest, the only person who come off looking bad is the one
criticizing or making the unkind comment.
On
the other hand, do we do this? If we do, we can change our
behavior. If Christ did not come into this world to condemn, but to save, then
why do we condemn others? If we are insecure and/or suffer from low self
esteem, the best way to feel better about ourselves and to raise others’
opinion of us is simply to be kind. It’s just that simple. Who doesn’t
like a kind person?? We don’t have to be clever, intelligent, or funny, just
KIND. If we do kind things for others and say kind, encouraging things to
others – who wouldn’t like us? What a way to make Christ feel proud of us. It
sure makes us proud of ourselves, and raises our self esteem. We must
continually remind ourselves that it is not our place to judge others. That
task belongs to God. When we criticize someone we are pronouncing
judgment on them. Isn’t that what Christ called us to do?
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 NIV
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 NIV
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 4:29
"For
God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes
in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send
his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him
is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because
he has not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. This is the verdict:
Light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because
their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not
come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the
truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done
has been done through God."
John 3:16-21
“Many people don’t want
their lives exposed to God’s light because they are afraid of what will be
revealed. They don’t want to be changed. Don’t be surprised when these same
people are threatened by your desire to obey God and do what is right because
they are afraid that the light in you may expose some of the darkness in their
lives. Rather than giving in to discouragement, keep praying that they will
come to see how much better it is to live in the light than in darkness.”
NIV Life Application Study Bible
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